Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend:

Relationships are one of the most beautiful part of our lives. 

No matter who we are Or which part of the world we are from, we all seek love in one form or another. And for those of us who are lucky enough to find someone we actually like and love, it’s important we know and understand them well. 

Do you find your girlfriend interesting and wish to get to know her better? Here are some deep questions to ask your Girlfriend to get to know her well :

Question : What are your fears in life? 

Let’s start off with the most deep question of all. Human beings are emotional beings and every action we take is dictated by our emotions. 

In order to really understand your girl, you need to understand what her fears and insecurities are in life. 

Question : What are you most grateful for in your life? 

Gratitude is something that everyone in this world should practice. It is appreciating the things we have in the present moment. 

So when you ask her this question, you get to know the things in her life that she truly values. 

So go ahead and ask this question everyday:

Question : What made you happy today? What are the things about today that you are grateful for? 

This is the best way to understand the things in her life that make her happy. 

Also lets you understand her hobbies and passion and even aspirations. When we get closer to our dreams, that makes us happy! 

This way you know what she truly likes and enjoys doing and if you share any similar interests, it would be cool for you to do it with her! 

Question : If you could change anything about your childhood and the way you were raised, what could you change?

We are all aware that the things that happened in our childhood pretty much shapes our entire personality. 

The traumas, the happy moments, the kind of relationships we had with our parents, siblings and the kind of social interactions we had with our friends decides the kind of person we are. 

This way you can understand your girls childhood better which could explain alot of her actions. 

What is the best memory you have with your family? 

Instead of boring them with repetitive questions about their family members, this question would let them explain everyone and everything with excitement! 

You can also understand who really means a lot to her and her beautiful memories and moments she has shared with her family that she treasures! 

Ever been heartbroken? What did that whole experience teach you? 

This question really let’s her open up about her insecurities around romantic relationships. 

This way she can share as much as she’s comfortable with at the moment and gives you an opportunity to walk through her good and bad times and let’s you understand her better. 

The process of sharing such emotions itself would strengthen the bond you have with her. And also make sure you understand her insecurities. 

Question : If you were to die today, what are all the things you would regret? 

For some questions like this, it would be better if you lead with answering it yourself. 

Perhaps we have been living in a way that didn’t really make us happy. Maybe we had some bad unnecessary fights with the people we loved. 

Again this question also lets you understand your girl better. Under all these temporary emotions, we gets to see her true self. 

Question : Who has impacted you the most in life? 

This needn’t necessarily have to be the people we love. These could be mentors or role models who’s words and wisdom has shaped our life and personality. 

Alot of us look up to our parents and some of us might be inspired by our friends, teachers or an internet icon whom we worship. 

This could be an interesting thing to get to know about your partner. 

Question : What has been sitting in your bucket list for the longest time? Something that you have been dreaming of doing for a long time? 

This could potentially be her true dream or purpose. Most of us would have something like this that we have been dreaming for a long time but haven’t gotten around to doing it? 

For me personally is to do an intercontinental bike trip, possibly with my close friends or lover? 

Maybe you could help your girlfriend to actually get around to doing it? 

Question : What is the thing that you love most about yourself? 

Self love is something that our generation people are struggling with. With so much insecurities that comes with constant comparison we have in our social circles /social media, some can find it hard to truly love themselves. 

Makes sense but we need to be accepting of ourselves and find a way to love ourselves. 

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Question : What are the events/challenges in your life that shaped you? 

Again the answer to this would be big and this is an opportunity to dive deep into her past

Enough with the boring questions, let’s jump into some interesting yet deep questions to ask your girlfriend : 

Question : What really gets you off in bed? 

We all have sexual fantasies but there are certain things that constantly gets us off sexually in a relationship 

This could turn too hot too quick if it’s asked in a private and romantic setting! 

There’s so many ways we can craft questions to understand our girlfriend’s personality, traumas, the things she values and so much more!


Written by Sai Subramaniam

Sai has over 4 years experience writing about mental health and productivity. He shares his thoughts about love, life and business in this blog. His goal is to help people become the best version of themselves and is guided by experts in the psychology and mental health field to help educate everyone about lifestyle and productivity

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